One of the biggest mistakes you could make, as a cam girl, is to fall in love with one of your members. Actually, not falling in love itself because you can't really control your feelings, but rather not being able to have self-control in this very delicate situation. Mixing professional and personal affairs, or business with pleasure, isn't recommended in any field of activity, but when it comes to webcam modeling, it's even more disavowed and frowned upon. By reading this article, you will understand why, and also what to do if you ever find yourself in this position.
First of all, as you already know, the biggest non-adult cam studios in the world, including ours, prevent members from the same country as you to find you and enter private sessions with you. This is done for your own safety since some members may not understand the "non-adult" concept, and could develop an unsuspected passion for you. Even if you work under a pseudonym, they could track you down, follow you, and harm you, which is the last thing we would want for our models, obviously. For the same reason, it's far from a good idea to put yourself in this position in the first place, by falling in love with a member.
Secondly, even if some of the discussions in the private sessions
with your members could be quite deep, you have to understand that this doesn't mean that you truly know the man on the other side of the screen. Even if he seems nice and well-intentioned, he could hide a totally unknown story and he could be a potential threat to you. Therefore, it's better not to complicate things and to keep it all professional. If he insists on finding out your real name or, even worse, your address, you should explain to him how things work inside the cam studio, and you should also let your colleagues and managers know about the situation.
However, it's always easier said than done. Therefore, what should you do if you start to have feelings for a member? Well, first of all, you shouldn't tell him! That's all men wait for, and you shouldn't encourage them to take any step towards you. Instead, you should tell a colleague or your manager, and they will explain why you shouldn't pursue a romantic relationship with one of your members. Furthermore, you should trust your feminine intuition: if it feels wrong to develop feelings for a member, it probably is. After all, it might just be a passing thing, and you certainly don't want to jeopardize a very promising career because of a fling.
In conclusion, falling in love with a member is a big no-no, and it should be avoided at all costs. You have to remember that you are the most important person in your life, and your career in online modeling is what defines you, not a passing passion for somebody you don't even know that well.